Imitation

They say that art imitates life. But, when it comes to movies, books, music, and other elements of "popular" art, is it the other way around?

We are raised in a society that bombards its youth with images, whether they be in the classroom, on TV, or online. Is it possible that teenagers act the way they do because that's how they see it in the movies? Most high school students party. Most movies about the "typical" high school students show them partying. So, which came first: the chicken, or the egg?

It occurred to me today, while watching Sex and the City, that my friends and I often compare ourselves to the women on that show. I'm like Charlotte, for example. But usually, I have to make myself fit into one of their characters, instead of applying things about that character to me. The media heavily influences our culture. Every decision we make is made in part by some outside force. Pre-teens change clothing brands like they change their socks. One week, Hollister is the "it" place to shop, until some popular person buys something from Abercrombie, and then it's time for a whole new wardrobe. Adults are no different.

People are so obsessed with TV shows and movies. They don't even realize how they affect their everyday lives. I've realized in my own life that I make decisions based on what a popular consensus is, and not necessarily because it's something I want to do. Even rebellion is in a way a type of conformity. You're recognizing there is a culture, and you create a subculture that is decidedly against it. In essence, even rebels are joiners.

So, what's my point?

Sometimes, it helps to just take a few seconds of the day to think about what's really important in life, and compare it to what society tells you is really important. Ultimately, your personal goals are shaped by society's expectations of you: 1. to get married, 2. buy a house, and 3. have 2.5 children). Bear this in mind as you make decisions about your life, but don't let it control your decisions. There is more to life than making lots of money and buying a huge house. Try and focus on goals one and three, and not as much on number two.